3 Sure Fire Ways to Get your Crush Under the Mistletoe
November 21, 2011
Are you in the mood for some holiday luvin'? Of course you are! So lure your one and only under the mistletoe and get to smoochin'!
Wait? You mean it's not that simple? Well let's go ahead and figure out some of the best ways to get your holiday crush to be cozy with you this Christmas season.
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1. Liqour? I Hardly Knew Her!
Okay, bad jokes aside, this is simultaneously the best and worst method for finding love. Yes, a little alcohol may make both of you look more attractive to the other, but at the same time, you are now probably not your regular thoughtful or charming self. A little booze can go a long way and sometimes it can go too far.
But, there is a reason that a lot of date proposals start with the words, "Can I buy you a drink sometime?". Alcohol is a social lubricant and if you use it just right, you may find yourself breaking the ice and on your way to smoochville before you know it.
2. Be Available
Sounds easy enough, right? All this means is that you should keep yourself around your crush when you can. You're not going to get anywhere by staring at them from across the room and never saying a word. Do what you can to spend time with them, even it if is with groups or at work. What may seem like uneventful conversation to you could easily be laying the ground work for a future relationship. You never know just how important these sorts of interactions are to someone else.
Best of all, just being available to talk all the time probably means you'll get to know your crush, and vice versa, which will help you to know if you really
do like them.
3. Go for Broke (Girls Only)
Speaking as a guy, I can honestly say that it's rare that a girl ever really 'put the moves' on me. And what I mean is that it's not often that a girl grabs you by the collar and plants one on you. However, assuming that the guy is not completely repulsed by you (and why would he be talking to you if he was?), if you just grab a boy and kiss him, it's nearly 100% likely that he will not resist and will be only too happy to kiss you back.
Of course, that's the reason why this only works for girls. If a boy decided to be impulsive and just try to dive in for a kiss with a girl . . . well . . . that's actually got some legal implications depending on if anyone else is around. But for a girl, no boy will complain. It may take a lot of guts, but if you just dive in and go for broke, you will at least get a definitive answer and better yet, you'll have tried your best. No need to go home wondering, "What if?"
Those are my 3 quick tips on getting some alone time with your crush under the mistletoe, what other great ideas do you have for winning a holiday kiss?